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just another complaining me :'( [Full Version]

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I never met a very mean guy like him nor ever i heard such a cruel word coming out of a man’s mouth. I really do not want to curse or say something bad about him. but, i think everybody’s friend, Karma will finally meet him.

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Couple of days ago, when I was on my a very management meeting, a knocked on the door surprised us all. It was my marketing friend knocking. She got me down to the Costumer Relation desk where there are parents there. I have no idea whatsoever of their visitation. Sitting hesitantly, I greeted them with my nicest yet awkward smile. “Yes, Good morning to you two.” I opened the conversation that was apparently already running in light speed.

They were happily explaining all over again to me, which made me start thinking whether they suffered from HMD as in hyperactive mouth disease. The bottom line is, they were complaining about the coming field trip, which is today to KidZania. I summed up our chit-chat as follow:

1. They believe that Kindergarten 1 students (TK Nol kecil) should have their parents or nanny accompany them in field trip activities.
::I said, that not all parents believe in what you believe. Some of the parents like it when their kids learn to be independent. They trust the teachers and school, that if anything happen, the school will take full responsibility. Letting the kids to have field trip with their parents or nanny around won’t be a school field trip, it will exactly what they have every weekend, a family field trip.

2. They believe with all their hearts and soul, that those parents who allow their kids to have field trip without nanny or parents are supposed to be called as ignorant parents.
::I, speechless, said in my heart. If you really care for you boy, you should have open your kid’s communication book so you can know that you need to book for ticket and seat if you want your nanny come along with your kid. You won’t come to school exactly two days before the field trip day, yelling and shouting and being angry with the school costumer relation officer just to make sure that you can have special arrangement that you nanny can come with your kid. So who is the ignorant parent in here?

3. They said that I, being single-unmarried-childless woman could not feel the need to care for the kids, since they are not my children. Moreover, they said that I, of course, will say in my heart that, just let them be, because they are not mine that I can’t have motherly instinct because I am not a mother…wait a minute. I remember now, it’s not them who were saying it. It was the father. Him.
::I only sighed.

I never met a very mean guy like him nor ever i heard such a cruel word coming out of a man’s mouth. I really do not want to curse or say something bad about him. but, i think everybody’s friend, Karma will finally meet him. I cannot believe what I heard at that time. And, I think, since I was so calm and controlled, he repeated his saying twice. So i wasn’t imagining things or misheard. It was a shock, knowing that God trust him children while other married couple that I know far more better than him still childless.

I hope he can have his time to learn to be a good man, husband and father. Otherwise, I pity his children.

Written by vallaura

February 24, 2010 at 12:58 AM

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